Relationship

        In recent times we are all facing a common issue. Nowadays we can able to build a ship is possible at all but build a true relationship is impossible, there are so many reason behind this problem but most of the people’s relationship getting break up causes of common reason. That is Virtual Relationships.

Modern world brings more changes in our life. Every change has both good and bad things itself. Likewise the Virtual world has both good and bad things. You are all known about what I am saying today. Yeah! WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram and much more websites and messengers were filled with our very own gadgets. These are all helps to communicate our people easily likewise these things are make some fake relationship too.

I can hear your mind voice… “Hey man these are all things already known by us, go there.”  Please wait I’ll tell you more. Many people even school students also using these Applications. They didn’t know how to treat a boy/girl themselves at the earlier ages. Even a 20+ also didn’t know how to understand themselves. 

Let we throwback to past years. Not only Lovers, Friends were met face to face because there is no avail of Facebook and WhatsApp. They shared their feelings, Happiness, sadness and all. On that time the true relationship played between them. But today there is no physical meeting only chatting.

All aged people fully spend their time to Virtual world. Kids are spending their time to gaming and cartoons. Youngsters are spending their time to chatting and social networking. Middle age and old aged people spending their time to Television serials and etc. so today we are all living in a Virtual life. Physical works and actions are fails in our life.

I can understand your feelings.“Everybody using so I am also using”,Yeah! You are right everybody using Even I am also using, without it we can’t communicate ourselves. Okay!! Okay!! Let’s come to main concept.

Virtual Relationship is living a relationship with chatting via Text and Calls. In this type of relationship has a smooth starting at earlier stage but after a while both of them addicted to that relationship. They are need always talking and chatting. Most of the relationship had an unexpected ending the reason of misunderstandings. 

If there is a boy and girl met in a place. They can easily understand the actual status (happy or sad) of themselves. Main reason of these things is Eye contact and can hear voice of them. So they can spend their time peacefully each other. 

But In case of WhatsApp chats they were separated by distance. They can’t meet each other. If that boy is in work tension he can’t pick up a call or text a message. So the girl can’t understand his situation likewise vice versa.

Lack of affection lack of understanding each other starts from here. In a virtual relationship they need a continuous chatting including a full stop comma of their life. In situation anyone (boy) become busy of own life next one (girl) feeling lonely. That girl can’t live without chatting him. She feels alone and yearning for care and affection. The twist starts from here if there is a new person entered to her life as a friend. She shares their feelings to him. Likewise if the girl gives a gap, boy needs a same.

Both of them choose a friend to share their problems in same virtually. I already told every virtual relationship starts smoothly but day by day changes also came. In virtual relationships we can’t understands what the situation is facing them at right moment. We hold our side view at all time and can’t try to know other’s point of view. 

Just “Go there!!” is a word. If it spoke face to face this word doesn’t make more impact them. But in WhatsApp chat Understands depend by the current situation of reader. So it makes an Impact between them not only this word.

Many people start their relationship by virtually but can’t maintain properly. Waste their time, energy and all with gadgets. 

Hours of phone call, days of chatting can’t equal to the Single visit of  Eye contact. There is no need of language and words. They can find each other feelings through EYES.

In our life we should find a partner and it necessity too. One thing a boy can live without a girl and a Girl also can live without a boy.  But if they had a relationship, they can’t fill their portion without themselves. From that day started yearnings of affection that is main reason of breakup and endings of many relationship.

Let you decide how to start a relationship. Make your life as a real just use virtual as a part of your life.

Virtual wife can’t give a love in real life!!

                         -Pradhap Mohan